When Someone Says Something Like:: 

You’re so cute; I wouldn’t have guessed. I wouldn’t have ever known you play for that team.  

or…

But you’re hot. 

I think::


 

For some reason I do get this a lot. I don’t understand it and how people get so confused when they figure out that I am not hetero. That right there all you’re doing is playing into the stereotype that all female loving women are unfeminine/ butch, and or in your eyes too unattractive to get a man thus they resort to lesbianism. You think  what you’re saying is a complement to me but my uneducated heterofriends you are completely wrong and it is quite offensive on many levels.