Making a playlist of Lesbian singers & bands.

Help a girl out. I have so far … Tegan & Sara, Sick of Sarah, Hunter Valentine, Uh Huh Her, Allison Weiss, & The Gossip.  I usually listen to male musicians and I dont know where to start. Help?

A guy came into the minimart I work at tonight and we made small talk as I waited on him. I went to say have a goodnight and he asked if I am single. I said yeah … why? He asked if he could have my number. It was so awkward the man must have zero gaydar. My only response was well you could but I doubt you’d get what your after considering I’m a lesbian.

I am clueless as to how to approach women. I see one I find attractive and I have no idea on how to initiate a conversation to find out if shes queer. Other than maybe saying ” I love vaginas what about you?” That comes off quite ridiculous.